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Expressive Art Therapy

March 8, 2016 By Daniel Davis, LMFT Leave a Comment

Creativity can save us. We suffer when we lose our sense of creativity. Our lives are full of opportunities to create. When we cook a meal, we are creating. When we build a fence, we are being creative. If I sing to music on my iPhone in the car, I am being creative. In our creativity, there is great promise. Being aware of the possibility of creativity can dramatically improve the quality of our life.

When we feel angry or afraid or shame, we can be creative. It is also true that I can be destructive. I can drink alcohol to excess. I could punch as wall. I may argue with someone that I love. I can yell at the driver of a passing car.

Another set of possibilities is to be creative. The artist’s work is to awaken all that is and all we perceive. Mathew Fox writes: “The artist first does this by waking up oneself to what is. Then he or she can awaken others. The artist finds himself or herself vulnerable to beings and events and takes the time to experience them in depth. In this way, we wake up to being, we awaken to what is and its great depth and mystery.”

When we are feeling overwhelm emotionally, we have the opportunity to wake up to a new reality. Daniel Siegel writes that “emotion is the process of integration that brings self-organization to the mind.”

When we are experiencing emotions, we can work creatively to integrate a larger reality – a wider view of life and the world. When Carl Jung was going through a difficult time in his life, he discovered something important. He found a way to calm himself by being creative. He built a small dwelling on a lake. Dr. Jung also make drawings and paintings when he was emotional. He also build a miniature village like he used to do as a child.

Carl Jung wrote: “Everything seemed difficult and incomprehensible. I was living in a constant state of tension; often I felt as if gigantic blocks of stone were tumbling down on me…. My enduring these storms was a question of brute strength…. To the extent that I managed to translate the emotions into images– that is to say, to find the images which were concealed in the emotions– I was inwardly calmed and reassured. Had I left those images hidden in the emotions, I might have been torn to pieces by them. There is a chance that I might have succeeded in splitting them off; but in that case I would inexorably have fallen into a neurosis and so been ultimately destroyed by them. As a result of my experiment I learned how helpful it can be, from the therapeutic point of view, to find the particular images which lie behind the emotions.”

Please watch this video by Judith Peterson on using art to see reality more clearly and feel better:

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Filed Under: Art, Blog Tagged With: afraid, angry, art, Carl Jung, child, creativity, Daniel Siegel, destructive, drawings, Expressive Art Therapy, Judith Peterson, Mathew Fox, miniature village, paintings, shame, splitting them off

Collage in Action

January 12, 2016 By Daniel Davis, LMFT Leave a Comment

I went to a workshop in the late 1990s with Deborah Bloch.  We were learning about career counseling.  Deborah had us take out a piece of butcher paper about as high as the length of my arm and as wide as three lengths of my arm.  We folded it into three square sections.  On the first section to the far left, Deborah asked us to draw with crayons: our life as it is right now.  We took about 15 minutes to do this.

Then, on the section to the far right, she had us draw: our life as we want to look in 5 years.  In the middle section, Deborah said to write down all the barriers, keeping me from the life I desired.  I later added to the middle section all the ways that I could imagine that would enable me to overcome the barriers to the future life that I desired.

I have done this exercise several times since.  I used collage a few times.  The advantage of collage is that I can find images instead of drawing them.  I do not need to paint them or use crayons to express my images.  I just look in magazines, old calendars, catalogues, or newspapers.  Whether you decide to draw, paint, or use collage, it is very helpful to put your ideas in a concrete form.  This process has been very helpful in remembering what my goals are through the confusion and chaos of modern life.  As I look back on my drawing and collages, I am surprised by how they have been manifested.

Yet life is much deeper than financial or career success.  For we can possess all the gold in the world and still feel miserable.  Mathew Fox writes that “True joy is an inside thing.  Joy does not come from the outside.  True joy is therefore non-addictive.  Joy is what happens when we join with the powers of the universe again.  To do this we must prepare ourselves, we must be willing to let go and let joy happen.  We must let go of dictating what our joy will be (for example, ‘when I get this pay raise,’ or ‘find this boyfriend’ or ‘buy this car’).  Desire has a place in our lives, but joy is deeper than desire.  It will not be dictated to.  It will not be bought and paid for.”

We may be too rational in America.  We may miss the joy of embracing the mystery and beauty of life.  Art gives us an opportunity to welcome the colorful images and subtle joy of a soulful life.  M.C. Richards writes that “by example and practice, I try to teach that creativity is built in – like the sun – it shines in everything we do – look!”

When I write or have a conversation, I am being creative.  The way I communicate is unique – unlike anyone else.  When I love I am being creative.  When I cook, I am being creative.  All our relationships are creative.  It is an art to start and to build a meaningful bond with another human being.  Our lives are creative journeys.  The question is do we realize it.

Art gives us practice at being creative.  We get to see our drawing, our painting, or our collage that is a result of our creativity.    It serves us well to learn how to be creative in soulful ways.  In this video, Sue Renfrew, M.A., shows us how to do collage.  Get our your paper, scissors, glue, magazines, catalogues, calendars, strings, cloth, feathers, and anything else that strikes your fancy.  Please watch this video and join in the joy of creation.

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Filed Under: Blog, Consciousness, Emotional Self-Regulation Tagged With: art, barriers, career development plan, collage, creativity, Deborah Bloch, future, joy, life, M.C. Richards, Mathew Fox, Sue Renfrew

Collage: Art as Therapy for Teenagers and Adults

September 8, 2015 By Daniel Davis, LMFT 4 Comments

We are all artists.  An artist is often defined in a narrow way.  We see an artist as someone who creates with colors, shapes, music, dance, writing and so on.  Yet each of us creates every day.  Mathew Fox writes, “Our life itself becomes a deep expression of who we are, what we care about, what our values are.   It is our great work.  To survive and thrive, in ways small and large, we depend on imagination.  We call on our wellsprings of creativity to give what we have to the world, to our families, to future generations.”

Much of my life, I must make up as I go.  I need to invent solutions every day, to meet the challenges of my work as well as the conflicts I encounter with those I love.  Our modern era seems to value obedience more than creativity.  We have given up on our creativity and say, “I can’t draw.”  “I can’t paint.  I am not creative.”

When we begin with the end in mind, we are able to accomplish much of value.  Making a collage enables us to translate a vision that arises within us to a concrete form.  It is like making a drawing of a dream image.  I can make a character from my dream a companion by drawing it and putting my dream image up on my wall.  The drawing allows me to remember my dream and how it felt when I was dreaming.

If I have a conflict, I can feel emotional relief when I draw it or express it with images that I find from magazines by making a collage.  I can make a collage of or a vision for my life.  Studies indicate that when we are creative in any way, our body releases chemicals in our brain that help us overcome sadness and depression and stress.

The word collage comes from the French word, which literally means – to glue.  A collage is a piece of art made up of different materials: paper, fabric, wood, photographs, and pictures cut out from magazines or calendars.  These materials are glued to paper.

In this video, Sue Renfrew, M.A., demonstrates how to collage.  Get out your paper, magazines, scissors, and glue.  Join in the joy of creation.

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Filed Under: Art, Blog Tagged With: Artists, collage, collage defined, creativity, Mathew Fox, Sue Renfrew

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